About

Christina Gray
The Isle of Man is my home.
Growing up here, I have met a wealth of people, from different backgrounds. I love meeting new people, hearing their experiences and enjoying an Island community.
I have had a lifetime of public speaking culminating in becoming a Celebrant.
In a Celebrant service you choose how you wish to express yourself to those around you. I am happy to include religious references, hymns and texts in services.
With my eclectic background I can draw together different references to create the service you want, whether that is formal, traditional or just simply, uniquely yours.
Frequently asked questions
Where can you have your ceremony?
For weddings anywhere you love! If it’s allowed on the site, then there are no restrictions as to where you can have a celebrant-led wedding. Indoor and outdoor ceremonies are equally popular and range from barns and village halls to marquees and tipis. If you love the outdoors, then a seaside, mountain top or lake ceremony might be your style. More and more people are even choosing their own gardens.
There are some restrictions on where you can hold a funeral, and together with your Funeral Director we will find the best place for you.
What areas do I cover ?
I’m her for you and willing to travel anywhere on the Island, but if you just can’t imagine a ceremony without me in some other part of the world, just ask!
How long will the ceremony be ?
Most ceremonies and services range from about 30-45 minutes depending on what elements you choose to include. Vow renewals and naming ceremonies may be a little shorter, but again there are no rules.
What are the first steps ?
If it is a Wedding that you are planning, you will also need to book an appointment with the Registry Office, much like you would register a birth before a Naming Ceremony.
For Funerals please contact your Funeral Director first. They are able to arrange everything needed around the service.
Will I write everything ?
This is up to you. What do you want?
From our meetings and conversations, I will write a personal service, unique to you, that has never been heard before. There are so many creative ways to demonstrate your love.
This may include a symbolic or ritualistic element. I can also add poems and readings if you have something special you would like to include. I am here to express your feelings.
Do you still need a registrar to make my marriage legal ?
Yes, the legal process will be completed at the registry office at any time you have the appointment. There is a cost involved which you need to pay separately. This is typically completed prior to the ceremony but can be done at your convenience. The wedding ceremony led by the celebrant (aka Christina) is where the magic happens and at the location of your choice with who and what you want! The celebrant-led ceremony is not legally binding.
What are my qualifications ?
I am fully trained and qualified by the Fellowship of Professional Celebrants, the largest organisation of independent celebrants in the UK and Europe. I hold a Certificate in Marriage and Family Celebrancy as well as a Certificate in Funeral Celebrancy.
What a Celebrant can’t do
A Celebrant cannot conduct a church service. You will need to contact your vicar, priest or religious equivalent if you wish to have your service in a church. However, they can be part of the service, reading the eulogy, for example.
A Celebrant cannot officiate a legal wedding. This needs to be done by someone who is authorised to do so. A Celebrant can only conduct the ceremony.
Funerals for which I do not charge.
Death of a Child or Children, Suicide, Murder
I am so sorry. All I can do for you is be there, supporting you. I will try and find the words to help express your loss and give the best service possible to honour the life of your loved ones.